The letter 'P' stands for personality. Many companies do personality profiles to find potential employees' strengths and weaknesses. There are many personality types: some types are compassionate towards people, others more competitive. Some are hard-driving, succeed-at-all-costs types whilst others have a more nurturing temperament. Whatever our particular attributes, let's not envy others' personalities. That's like saying to God, 'I'm not good enough. You made a mistake when you made me.'
God will help us to strengthen our character or change our behaviour, but he'll never change our uniquely-designed personality. Instead, he'll help us to recognise it, love it and maximise its strengths.
Before God gave us our assignment, he designed us. He gave us the right personality to fulfil his plan for our life. So instead of putting ourselves down or wishing we had a different temperament, let's say with the psalmist, 'You...knit me together in my mother's womb. Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvellous - how well I know it' (Psalm 139:13-14 NLT).
So what now? Thank God for your unique personality. God knows and values you as an individual. It says in his word: 'Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by your name; you are mine' (Isaiah 43:1 NKJV). Ask him to help you see how your uniqueness can be used to do his good and true will in this world.